- 12/04/2020 at 3:08 pm #7997brookeParticipant
I am new to this. I just wanted to get some advice and maybe some tips.
So I have a Dominant he is being very patient with me. It’s all virtual so not meeting. We have spoke about rules, what I can and can’t do. He is more into control, obedience, and training rather then humiliation and seeing me as less than him.
i just thought I could jump straight in (how wrong was I)
so I panicked and realised this was much more than I thought. He has given me time to think it over.
Just wanted to get some advice as a “newbie”
- 17/04/2020 at 5:55 am #9176Captain’s GirlParticipant
Communication is key. Know your own mind. Limits do not only apply to sex. If you are uncomfortable, consider renegotiating or terminating the relationship, depending on whats going on.
- 30/09/2020 at 2:47 am #48137lilbyrdnickyParticipant
I’m 6 months in and grateful to be in a loving relationship, because i can only imagine why you panicked! I thrive as a submissive and feel a relief come over me after i submit, but my partner truly shocked me today by taking us to a place that was painstakingly uncomfortable to me at the time. But, he somehow always knows what i need and i am better for the powerful experience. I’d love to know how things worked out! XOXO
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