New to being a submissive

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    • #7997
      brooke
      Participant

      Hi there,

      I am new to this. I just wanted to get some  advice and maybe some tips.
      So I have a Dominant  he is being very patient with me. It’s all virtual so not meeting. We have spoke about rules, what I can and can’t do. He is more into control, obedience, and training  rather then humiliation and seeing me as less than him.
      i just thought I could jump straight in (how wrong was I)

      so I panicked and realised this was much more than I thought. He has given me time to think it over.

      Just wanted to get some advice as a “newbie”

      thank you

    • #9176
      Captain’s Girl
      Participant

      Communication is key. Know your own mind. Limits do not only apply to sex. If you are uncomfortable, consider renegotiating or terminating the relationship, depending on whats going on.

    • #48137
      lilbyrdnicky
      Participant

      I’m 6 months in and grateful to be in a loving relationship, because i can only imagine why you panicked! I thrive as a submissive and feel a relief come over me after i submit, but my partner truly shocked me today by taking us to a place that was painstakingly uncomfortable to me at the time. But, he somehow always knows what i need and i am better for the powerful experience. I’d love to know how things worked out! XOXO

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