- 19/11/2020 at 10:17 am #48524Ladygr1mParticipant
Me and my master/husband is new to this lifestyle. But like all subs i still have to learn and be taught. One thing is i hate giving a bj and i refuse most of the time before we decided to start this lifestyle. And once again a fell into the habit of refucing a bj even if my master ordered one. This will be our first dicipline session as master and slave. What will be a good punishment for my behavior.
- 14/12/2020 at 5:01 am #48955Captain’s GirlParticipant
Have you considered orgasm denial? You denied his order, so he denies your pleasure.
- 23/12/2020 at 1:01 am #50196Beth [MM]Participant
Many different thing could work, find something that will work for the both of you. Here are some suggestions –
Corporal punishment, i.e. spanking, kneeling on rice
Practice fellatio on a dildo
Orgasm denial as suggested above
You two might want to discuss why you dislike giving bjs and address those issue. Then try to find positives for you, like happiness in service, in giving pleasure, etc. And maybe some positive reinforcement after the bj for you.
I didn’t like giving them when we first started, but I’ve learned to enjoy serving him. I love giving him pleasure, it’s a little bit of a power trip for me knowing that I can make him feel so very good. I learned to deep throat so he usually cums in the back of my mouth and I don’t really taste it.
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