[Nick]

Can anyone explain exit strategies and how they might apply to secondary relationship or none long term relationship. Are they normally used and what would normally be specified.

Thanks

[HisLordship]

Hi Nick.  I have to say that I have no experience in using exit strategies in D/s relationships. However, whatever your situation or reason from wishing to exit from any situation I would suggest you are clear at what part of the discussion you will walk away. Whether your aim is to get your point across, ensure the other person is safe and secure with the news or reach an amicable outcome, be clear at what point you will exit the conversation.  Unfinished business is very difficult resolve cleanly and usually drags on unnecessarily.

[Nick]

Thanks. It’s a complicated situation so it more to be clear about the situation, Wanting to us both to be safe physically and mentally during and after it ends and recognising there are reasons for both of us to leave that may not obvious to the other.

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