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    • #61892
      Susie
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      Can dressing up and being a something or someone else help us improve our self confidence or self  esteem?

      I would like your response in the form of a singe photograph and a paragraph of no more than than three sentences.

      If you are happy, I will curate a blog to share the results.

      my best

      Susie  x

    • #61893

      Susie I love this idea of yours and I do hope it will take off. As for me, I have found that Master James prefers me naked but adding certain jewelry or harnest or belt in my thighs brings out my confidence more. It is like erasing that I am naked but I am hiding nothing. I wish I had a photo to share but I have a thing about them and Master James has rules set in place about me sharing them. You are an inspiration and I love that you are living your truth and happiness. Thank you for reaching out to me about this forum. I am, as always, so proud of you…VL

    • #61895
      Susie
      Participant

      <p style=”text-align: left;”>Oh thank you VL,  I’m delighted that you have replied and I thank you for your encouragement. I understand the photograph thing and I appreciate that some people will find that hard or impossible. However I’d still appreciate anyone’s thoughts on this topic. You have helped me grow in confidence  and I thank you with sincerity x</p>

    • #61896
      bbMe
      Participant

      Dressing up, regardless of how or in what, lets me open myself up. Makes me vulnerable, or at times stronger. It all depends on the time and day or other of life’s variables.

      Just be true to yourself.

    • #61897
      LilBrat
      Participant

      I have grown in my confidence as I’ve aged. But when I was younger, dressing up, wearing extreme makeup and perhaps even a wig really helped me to create a confident persona. It really helped me to transition that confidence to myself regardless what I’m wearing. Although I do still quite enjoy putting on some sexy clothing for my Master when we are together.

    • #61898
      Susie
      Participant

      Thanks LilBrat, Is that a vulnerability you want for your dominant? Is it something you dress to bring forward?

    • #61899
      Susie
      Participant

      Apologies LB and bbMe and I’m writing in the early hours. The response above should have been addressed on bbMe.

      Thanks both of you for your response. Over the weekend, I will launch the blog and begin to add your words.

    • #61902

      Dressing up myself is such a freeing activity. I have my little onesies i can wear to feel that aspect of myself and my pigtails as well. Once i have that on I’m running around wanting to stare at myself in the mirror dancing to Disney songs.

      Theres also my big girl slutty outfits that i wear as well either if im wanting attention from my lover or if i just want to feel sexy for myself. ill even put on slow music to dirty dance to.

    • #61903
      Susie
      Participant

      Wow NPG, that’s a beautiful reply. It sounds as though you have a wonderful time with dressing up and know how to make this work for you.

      As a developing sissy, I’m learning so much from em watching how people react to my growing confidence.

    • #61900
      Susie
      Participant

      I’ve written this and will use it as part of the blog… https://submission2word.wordpress.com/2021/10/08/disguise/

    • #61901
      Susie
      Participant
      • #61959
        Susie
        Participant

        Dressing creates that sub space and being asked to wear something or seeing triggers – panties, underwear, hearing or reading words or seeing images, will have me wanting to relive the feelings and seek the next experience.

    • #61961
      Susie
      Participant

      I can create my own subspace as I dress as a bad girl and offer to serve, worship, obey or entertain.  I am an exhibitionist and a tease. I think I want to be the girl who is unattainable and to excite myself in her absence. The act of dressing and exhibition makes humiliation or punishment by a dominant a pleasure that the loss of the chance to love an elusive girl has denied me. As my self confidence increases, I am enjoying the power that dressing can give me. I have become the tease.

       

    • #61969

      Thank you for sharing the link Susie…VL

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