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  • #6097


    My wife and I are new to the D/s scene, well officially anyway. She had indicated that it was just for the bedroom but has begun to submit to me in subtle ways outside of it.  Asking that I approve or pick her clothing for the day and what if any makeup she should wear. Kneeling before me when she wants her done.


    The question here is, is it possible to keep D/s confined to the bedroom or is it something that would generally leach out into everyday life anyway.

    PS not at all complaining that it is just curious.

  • #6099

    Beth [MM]

    It really dependents on the preferences of those involved in the relationship. I think many here started in the bedroom and have broadened it to encompass some, most, or all of their relationship. But if it’s only desired in the bedroom it doesn’t need to go beyond that. There is no right way, just whatever works for those involved.

  • #6100


    that does make sense.  Appreciate the insight.  

  • #6103


    I would say the best way to approach this is to let your D/s take a natural path.  Trying to fit your dynamic into the shape  of others, or what general writting says you should be only adds pressure.  If your D/s is currently in the bedroom and it works, stay there. If one day it spills over and becomes something else, stop and evaluate what is going on.  Each to their own!

  • #6104


    That’s a good point about stopping to evaluate. Will keep that in mind

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