- 07/10/2020 at 10:42 am #48143rosiefoxParticipant
I’m pretty new to the whole D/s thing and I was wondering if a D/s relationship could be non sexual? I know most are sexual, but I wasn’t sure if that kind of relationship was possible without the sexual element.
- 08/10/2020 at 10:27 pm #48147HisLordshipKeymaster
Hi Rosiefox. Well that is an interesting question because as you say, a lot of D/s relationships are sexual. My short answer is yes, a D/s relationship can be non-sexual for the simple reason that a couple’s relationship is their own. A Dominance and submissive dynamic is very much about a power exchange, and no one says sex has to be involved; in fact that would be like saying when you aren’t having sex, you’re not D/s for that period of time!
Some D/s relationships have elements of Domestic Service or DDlg where sex isn’t the driving force, so again that doesn’t make you not D/s. How you shape you relationship whether it be face to face or long distance, a power exchange can exist quite happily I would imagine.
- 28/10/2020 at 1:30 am #48452CurveycatsubParticipant
Yes it can ❤️
- 01/03/2021 at 3:35 am #52270AdraParticipant
Yes. Its a style of relationship and can include sex or not. Not all D/s relationships are kinky. It is part of our 24/7 power exchange but not all power exchange relationships are sexual.
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