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    • #12254
      Captain’s Girl
      Participant

      Ok, so my Dom saw a tiktok that said hold out 5 fingers, then fold 2 down. So depending on which fingers you folded down would let you know if you are a Dom, sub, or switch. He got Dom, I got switch. Im not willing to put much stock into something that basic (but in general personality, i actually agree)… but it made me wonder if there was a test for such things. And this is what I found bdsmtest.org Have any of you been on there and taken it? If so did you agree with the results? Does anyone else know of any tests for this purpose?

    • #12256
      Keptwifey
      Participant

      This is the main site I’ve used and heard of. Its generally considered to be quite accurate and is used by a lot of FETLife users.

    • #12264

      I used. Bdsmtest.org and found it almost being accurate.

    • #12295
      Captain’s Girl
      Participant

      I also found it to be mostly accurate. The only thing I felt it was off about was the masochistic rating. I think it was too high. I’m nowhere near a pain slut, beyond a little sting it’s not necessarily enjoyable for me…. however, I love the marks and those don’t come from an erotic spanking. I’m willing to suck it up to get the marks, and the marks mean more for me because I didn’t 100% love the process to get them. Makes me feel like I literally earned my stripes.

    • #48190
      Anonymous

      Having read this yesterday Mistress and I completed this last night.  There were no real surprises for Mistress, switch all the way down the line.

      For me, the high Masochistic rating was a surprise.  I’ve always said I don’t like pain.  However, since we actually formally started this journey – I have realised I do enjoy it – as long as it has a reason or purpose.  Which then dovetails with my fairly high brat rating – where I like to cause reason for punishment – though Mistress is beginning to ensure when I do this, I don’t get the type of punishment I actually want…

    • #48191
      Anonymous

      The previous post was by myself.  Unfortunately my profile required resetting

      • #48193
        Captain’s Girl
        Participant

        Thanks for the input. Also, said i was a masochist. I disagree with those findings. I dont love the pain, i love the marks and am willing to endure the pain required to get them.

    • #48194
      Anonymous

      I have realised I’m an emotional masochist – that dawned on me today.

    • #63120
      Lowlander
      Participant

      My results:
      == Results from bdsmtest.org ==
      90% Submissive
      88% Voyeur
      80% Experimentalist
      78% Switch
      75% Degradee
      72% Rope bunny
      65% Rigger
      60% Degrader
      58% Pet
      57% Brat
      57% Primal (Prey)
      56% Vanilla
      48% Owner
      47% Master/Mistress
      45% Dominant
      31% Non-monogamist
      29% Brat tamer
      26% Masochist
      24% Primal (Hunter)
      21% Sadist
      17% Slave
      6% Daddy/Mommy
      0% Boy/Girl
      0% Exhibitionist
      0% Ageplayer

      Who da thunk?

      • #63124
        CruelsSexPuppet
        Participant

        Your high switch percentage shows itself through your other scores. For instance degradee/degrader, rope bunny/rigger, and sadist/masochist.

    • #63126
      Lowlander
      Participant

      I’m not sure what a rope Bunny is.

      Does that mean I get tied up and try to jump into the hole? 😜

    • #63127
      Lowlander
      Participant

      <p style=”text-align: center;”>I’m just a submissive lesbian trapped in a male form.</p>
      Wish I had more knowledge in psychology

      I know some of the childhood triggers which created those high scores.

      What I don’t know is just how far I’m willing to go in the real world.

      I think I could easily go beyond some of those things in that test.

      I would easily consider traveling a few 100 miles to go experience some of this.

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