Bdsm test?

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    • #12254
      Captain’s Girl
      Participant

      Ok, so my Dom saw a tiktok that said hold out 5 fingers, then fold 2 down. So depending on which fingers you folded down would let you know if you are a Dom, sub, or switch. He got Dom, I got switch. Im not willing to put much stock into something that basic (but in general personality, i actually agree)… but it made me wonder if there was a test for such things. And this is what I found bdsmtest.org Have any of you been on there and taken it? If so did you agree with the results? Does anyone else know of any tests for this purpose?

    • #12256
      Keptwifey
      Participant

      This is the main site I’ve used and heard of. Its generally considered to be quite accurate and is used by a lot of FETLife users.

    • #12264

      I used. Bdsmtest.org and found it almost being accurate.

    • #12295
      Captain’s Girl
      Participant

      I also found it to be mostly accurate. The only thing I felt it was off about was the masochistic rating. I think it was too high. I’m nowhere near a pain slut, beyond a little sting it’s not necessarily enjoyable for me…. however, I love the marks and those don’t come from an erotic spanking. I’m willing to suck it up to get the marks, and the marks mean more for me because I didn’t 100% love the process to get them. Makes me feel like I literally earned my stripes.

    • #48190
      Anonymous

      Having read this yesterday Mistress and I completed this last night.  There were no real surprises for Mistress, switch all the way down the line.

      For me, the high Masochistic rating was a surprise.  I’ve always said I don’t like pain.  However, since we actually formally started this journey – I have realised I do enjoy it – as long as it has a reason or purpose.  Which then dovetails with my fairly high brat rating – where I like to cause reason for punishment – though Mistress is beginning to ensure when I do this, I don’t get the type of punishment I actually want…

    • #48191
      SirPaul
      Participant

      The previous post was by myself.  Unfortunately my profile required resetting

      • #48193
        Captain’s Girl
        Participant

        Thanks for the input. Also, said i was a masochist. I disagree with those findings. I dont love the pain, i love the marks and am willing to endure the pain required to get them.

    • #48194
      SirPaul
      Participant

      I have realised I’m an emotional masochist – that dawned on me today.

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