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Ok, so my Dom saw a tiktok that said hold out 5 fingers, then fold 2 down. So depending on which fingers you folded down would let you know if you are a Dom, sub, or switch. He got Dom, I got switch. Im not willing to put much stock into something that basic (but in general personality, i actually agree)… but it made me wonder if there was a test for such things. And this is what I found bdsmtest.org Have any of you been on there and taken it? If so did you agree with the results? Does anyone else know of any tests for this purpose?
I also found it to be mostly accurate. The only thing I felt it was off about was the masochistic rating. I think it was too high. I’m nowhere near a pain slut, beyond a little sting it’s not necessarily enjoyable for me…. however, I love the marks and those don’t come from an erotic spanking. I’m willing to suck it up to get the marks, and the marks mean more for me because I didn’t 100% love the process to get them. Makes me feel like I literally earned my stripes.
Having read this yesterday Mistress and I completed this last night. There were no real surprises for Mistress, switch all the way down the line.
For me, the high Masochistic rating was a surprise. I’ve always said I don’t like pain. However, since we actually formally started this journey – I have realised I do enjoy it – as long as it has a reason or purpose. Which then dovetails with my fairly high brat rating – where I like to cause reason for punishment – though Mistress is beginning to ensure when I do this, I don’t get the type of punishment I actually want…
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