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Topic Chat / Self Inspiration / 8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Self Inspiration / 8pm-9pm BST
Where do you find inspiration to keep yourself motivated in D/s. Outside of having a partner to keep things going, how do you get your brain to keep the kink alive and find new ideas?
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Topic Chat / D/s Roleplay / 8pm – 9pm CST
Topic Chat / D/s Roleplay / 8pm – 9pm CST
We can discuss play preparation, power play, using whips and chains or simply voice control...
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Topic Chat / Rules & Rituals / 8pm – 9pm CST
Topic Chat / Rules & Rituals / 8pm – 9pm CST
How do you use rules and rituals to support your dynamic? Are they the glue in your relationship? What works and has value?
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Topic Chat / Topic Gathering -8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Topic Gathering -8pm-9pm BST
Today we take sometime to survey the site's users for ideas on what you would like to discuss going forward. It's an open floor so please give us your thoughts!
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Topic Chat / Primal Play / 8pm – 9pm CST
Topic Chat / Primal Play / 8pm – 9pm CST
Do you enjoy raw, animalistic play? Do you love a struggle or enjoy things such as biting, scraping or wrestling? Whether you are an experienced primal player or just interested to know more sign in and lets chat...
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Topic Chat / Active Submission / 8pm – 9pm CST
Topic Chat / Active Submission / 8pm – 9pm CST
Lets get active. Sometimes we need to do more than just follow our rules and complete our rituals. Sometimes to keep the dynamic going we have to be more actively submissive, so come along to chat and share ideas, swap experiences and find out what others do.
D/s Discussion / Anal Play / 8pm-9pm BST
D/s Discussion / Anal Play / 8pm-9pm BST
We are using an A-Z theme to for chat inspiration so this week is A and we are all about the anal. Share your experiences on starting out with anal play, toys and techniques and anal scenes. Meet in The Dungeon from 8pm ~ New members always welcome.
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Topic Chat / Aftercare / 8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Aftercare / 8pm-9pm BST
Continuing with our A to Z of chats we are sticking with the letter A so this chat is all about aftercare. We explain the importance of aftercare, the different forms it can take and the pitfalls of ignoring the need for it in this week's topic chat. Join us in the Dungeon from 8pm […]
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Topic Chat / Masturbation / 8pm-9pm CST
Topic Chat / Masturbation / 8pm-9pm CST
How do you use masturbation in your relationship? Is it still something you do alone or do you masturbate for each other? And then there is mutual masturbation - the tricks and the tips.
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Topic Chat / Show & Tell / 8pm-9pm CST
Topic Chat / Show & Tell / 8pm-9pm CST
This week's topic is a toys show and tell. Please come along to share your favorite toys and tell us how you like to use them.
D/s Discussion / Active Submission / 8pm-9pm BST
D/s Discussion / Active Submission / 8pm-9pm BST
We started our A to Z on a Sunday so we have an additional letter A chat to squeeze in. The topic this week for discussion is Active Submission. What does it mean to be actively submissive, how does this work around Dominance and is it something that forms part of your dynamic? Meet in […]
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Topic Chat / Bondage / 8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Bondage / 8pm-9pm BST
We continue with our A to Z of chats with the letter B and tackle Bondage this week. Join us to find out about bondage in its different forms including bondage and restraint, decorative bondage and honour bondage. Meet in The Dungeon from 8pm ~ New members always welcome!
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Book Group / Fear of Flying / 9pm-10pm BST
Book Group / Fear of Flying / 9pm-10pm BST
We have voted that this month we will read ‘Fear of Flying’ (feminism, humour) – Erica Jong Looking forward to seeing you all in the Library. Please note the date of this chat has changed from the 5th and is now the 19th. New members always welcome.
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D/s Discussion / Balance / 8pm-9pm BST
D/s Discussion / Balance / 8pm-9pm BST
We continue this week with B for Balance. A good D/s relationship is all about balance because that is how a power exchange works. How does balance come into your Dominance and submission? Meet in The Dungeon from 8pm ~ New members always welcome!
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Topic Chat / Consent / 8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Consent / 8pm-9pm BST
Moving on to the letter C this week, we are talking about consent. While people tend to think that there is blanket consent in a D/s relationship this isn't necessarily the case. This week we shed light on how consent might work and tackle areas such as consensual non-consent. Meet in The Dungeon from 8pm […]
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D/s Discussion / Control / 8pm-9pm BST
D/s Discussion / Control / 8pm-9pm BST
We continue with the letter C with talking about Control. How does control work for you? Have you found it hard to take control or hard to give it up? What things have you done to help to make control work in your power exchange? Meet in The Dungeon from 8pm ~ New members always […]