The SafeworD/s Club

It's almost 2021 and hopefully it will look a lot more brighter that the one we are leaving behind! If you're free, at a loose end or just missing your on-line friends, come on by. Bring a glass of something nice and curl in the warm glow of your device's screen!

This is an open chat and a safe place where subs can gather to ask the questions plaguing us or are curious about. We will also have a chat on Sundays, at the same time, for those who cannot make the Friday chats...

HAPPY NEW YEAR! With the new year under way we are discussing what you have learnt last year in your relationships and in yourself.  Also, what plans you may have set for your forthcoming D/s year?

Roleplay seems to be the marmite of BDSM. Love it or hate it what roles have you tried and how did it go? What have you found has worked and what has been a bit of a flop and why?

Join Posy in the Library to swap thoughts on the book for this time - Madame Bovary by Gustave Flaubert.

This will be an open chat to all. It will no longer only be for subs. It is an open forum where we can chat, ask questions and learn from one another. Hope to see you there...VL

 What are the most exciting things about your D/s?

The topic this week is different aspects of control. How does control work in your dynamic - behavioural, mental, physical, sexual etc - and how each makes the Dom/sub feel? What motivates the Dom to do each aspect and what works/what doesn't for you as a couple? 

This will be an open chat to all. It will no longer only be for subs. It is an open forum where we can chat, ask questions and learn from one another. Hope to see you there...VL

 What areas in your D/s relationship still need the most work?

Today we untangle the knots and kinks assosicated with Rope Play.

This is an open chat for all members. Please join in to chat, make friends or ask questions. We are all family...VL

This week the topic is Perfect pairings: what types of play do you tend to use together. Have you found particular combinations that just seem to work? Please come along and share you thoughts and experiences with us in the Dungeon.