The SafeworD/s Club

This week we embrace the letter H which lets us cast a spotlight on humiliation kink. Erotic humiliation can take many different forms and tonight we want to explore some of those and find what works and why. Join us in The Dungeon from 8pm - new members always welcome.

Our next read is going to be more of a thriller, a page turner. It's available on Kindle & Audible as well as traditional 'pages'. It was recommended by fellow blogger Marie Rebelle and it's called  The Liar's Wife :  Samantha Hayes A new author to me, I hope you'll give it a go and […]

We will post games that CPM has used in the past and/or currently. Thank you CPM. We will discuss them and how they could be used in our dynamics. We will see the different ways we might alter them to suite us and how fun and enticing they can be...

Tonight the topic is Hoods and Masks so we are asking you what like, what you don't, and how you use hoods and masks you enjoy. Join us in The Red Room from 8pm - New members always welcome.

Leather, leather and more leather. We will discuss the many clothing or object we own or would love to own that are made from leather. This will include discussion on quality, texture, feel and smell...

From spanking, to floggers, to canes and back again this time we are looking at the letter I and talking about Impact play. Why do we like it, how do we do it and what do we need to know before jumping right in? Join us in The Dungeon from 8pm - New members always […]

We will discuss the differences between Dom/sub and Master/slave relationships: Does being a slave (in BDSM/TPE context) automatically mean being a "doormat"?

Sticking with the letter I, we focus on intimacy. How do you create intimacy in your dynamic and what are the effect of this on the relationship in general terms? Join us in The Red Room from 8pm - New members always welcome.

We will have an open chat where you are welcome to (Bring your own Topic Question) to discuss with the group...

Communication is such a big part of D/s. How can your focus in meeting the needs of the other if you don't know what they are. Tonight for the letter J we tackle the topic of journaling and look at how and why that could be a useful tool. Join us in The Dungeon from […]

This will be game night where I will share fantasies shared with me. We will discuss them and try to see if the writer can be guess. We can also share if we have done them, would done them, are a hard no, or a possibility...

Tonight we are talking about the many contrasts in which exist for us as Doms and subs: pleasure and pain, light and dark, hot and cold to name but a few. We look at how these contrasts work and the ways in which we can use them. Join us in The Red Room from 8pm […]

We will explore what we say or how we say things during sexual activities. We can examine the differences between dirty talk and insults as well as explain how we all feel when being spoken to in a certain manner. We may not all be comfortable with dirty talk and this could be a way […]

Tonight we take a look at the letter K and we examine your kinks. What does it mean to be kinky? How big a part does kink play in your D/s? What are your biggest kinks and what is it that pulls you towards them? Are there any kinks that you would like to explore […]

Join in to discuss stimulation play revolved around oral, rimming and nipples. Let share what we have tried, want to try, loved and maybe disliked...

Tonight we want to know what the best piece of knowledge is that you would share with others who are new to D/s or to this lifestyle? Join us in The Red Room from 8pm - new members always welcome.

This week the topic is plugs. What sort of plugs have you used and how have you used them? Are there any that you would like to try but haven't worked up to yet? From anal plugs, to vaginal plugs, to tunnel plugs, to mouth plugs to novelty plugs such as tails we hope to […]