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Topic Chat / Using A Narrative / 8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Using A Narrative / 8pm-9pm BST
They say silence is golden, however, bringing a narrative to sexual play can not only set the scene, it can also take you deeper in to submission. Today we talk about the ways in which a narrative can add to your scenes and the various ways to use them.
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Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30pm
Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30pm
Join Vixen and the other subs in the lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support.
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D/s Discussion / Playing With Others / 8pm-9pm BST
D/s Discussion / Playing With Others / 8pm-9pm BST
What are your thoughts on playing with other people? Do the hedonist tales in literature make you curious or even turn you on? Or have you hidden desires, and maybe experiences, to try something outside your comfort zone?
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Topic Chat / Oral / 8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Oral / 8pm-9pm BST
Today we discuss the techniques used in pleasuring our partners, their feelings and what works best for them. We also look how oral is used in a D/s dynamic and the power it can have.
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Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / from 8.30 Central
Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / from 8.30 Central
Join Vixen and the other subs in the lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support.
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D/s Discussion / Managing Strengths & Weaknesses / 8pm-9pm BST
D/s Discussion / Managing Strengths & Weaknesses / 8pm-9pm BST
Each of us have personal strengths and weakness, but in a close relationship they are shared and supported. How do you build on strengths and weaknesses in your D/s relationship?
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Topic Chat / Electric Play / 8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Electric Play / 8pm-9pm BST
Today we discuss the use of Electric Stimulation Toys in play. Through the use of visual aids we will explore how electric stimulation works, myths busted and feelings that can enhance sexual stimulation.
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Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30pm
Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30pm
Join Vixen and the other subs in the lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support.
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D/s Discussion / How Sex In Literature Went Mainstream / 8pm-9pm BST
D/s Discussion / How Sex In Literature Went Mainstream / 8pm-9pm BST
Historically certain pieces of literature such as Marquis de Sade (1740-1814), John Cleland’s Fanny Hill (1749), James Joyce’s Ulysses (1922), D. H. Lawrence’s Lady Chatterley’s Lover (1928), and Henry Miller’s Tropic of Cancer (1934) have all caused controversy due to both sexual and political challenges. So how has written erotica changed today and where do modern day influences come from?
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Topic Chat / Sexual Non-Monogamy / 8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Sexual Non-Monogamy / 8pm-9pm BST
The topic this weeks chat is Sexual Non-Monogamy and will cover things such as; cuckolding, hotwives, threesomes etc.
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Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30pm
Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30pm
Join Vixen and the other subs in the lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support.
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D/s Discussion / BDSM: when is sadomasochism an act of domestic violence? / 8pm-9pm BST
D/s Discussion / BDSM: when is sadomasochism an act of domestic violence? / 8pm-9pm BST
There are obvious benefits to liberalising the law in the area of S&M. Personal autonomy and the right to a private life are key considerations for the law in any progressive democracy. There have, however, been a number of cases that have recently reached the UK courts that illustrate the danger of taking too liberal […]
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Topic Chat / Consistency / 8pm-9pm BST
Topic Chat / Consistency / 8pm-9pm BST
This is a topic that is discussed on site a lot so we thought it would be good to focus on. How do you manage to be consistent with your D/s when things are happening round about. When things become less consistent how do you feel and how do you respond?
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Book Group / Fingersmith by Sarah Waters / 9pm BST
Book Group / Fingersmith by Sarah Waters / 9pm BST
Please note the change in date for this chat which was originally scheduled for 27th Aug. Gosh it’s hot in my part of the UK at the moment! So it’s been the ideal opportunity to pull a chair into the shade and crack open our latest read – Fingersmith by Sarah Waters. Our protagonist, Sue, […]
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Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30 pm
Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30 pm
Join Vixen and the other subs in the lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support.
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D/s Discussion / Masturbation and Imaginary / 8pm-9pm BST
D/s Discussion / Masturbation and Imaginary / 8pm-9pm BST
Masturbation can play a large part of out sexual lives. We discuss how you masturbate, but more importantly, what imaginary do you require and how do you get it -to get off?