D/s Discussion / How Sex In Literature Went Mainstream / 8pm-9pm BST

Historically certain pieces of literature such as Marquis de Sade (1740-1814), John Cleland’s Fanny Hill (1749), James Joyce’s Ulysses (1922), D. H. Lawrence’s Lady Chatterley’s Lover (1928), and Henry Miller’s Tropic of Cancer (1934) have all caused controversy due to both sexual and political challenges. So how has written erotica changed today and where do modern day influences come from?

Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30pm

Join Vixen and the other subs in the lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support.

D/s Discussion / BDSM: when is sadomasochism an act of domestic violence? / 8pm-9pm BST

There are obvious benefits to liberalising the law in the area of S&M. Personal autonomy and the right to a private life are key considerations for the law in any progressive democracy. There have, however, been a number of cases that have recently reached the UK courts that illustrate the danger of taking too liberal […]

Topic Chat / Consistency / 8pm-9pm BST

This is a topic that is discussed on site a lot so we thought it would be good to focus on. How do you manage to be consistent with your D/s when things are happening round about. When things become less consistent how do you feel and how do you respond?

Book Group / Fingersmith by Sarah Waters / 9pm BST

Please note the change in date for this chat which was originally scheduled for 27th Aug. Gosh it’s hot in my part of the UK at the moment! So it’s been the ideal opportunity to pull a chair into the shade and crack open our latest read – Fingersmith by Sarah Waters. Our protagonist, Sue, […]

Sub Chat / Sub Lounge / 8.30 pm

Join Vixen and the other subs in the lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support.

Topic Chat / Clothing & Accessories / 8pm-9pm BST

This week the topic is clothing and accessories. How do you use accessories to create the scene or get in the right head space? What of clothing and accessories do you use for different sorts of play or occasions. Do you use clothing as part of your Dominance and/or submission? BRING ALONG SOME PICTURES TO […]