The SafeworD/s Club

Today we explore mindset. What things help to establish and manage a dominant and submissive mindset, and what things can get in the way?

Hello everyone. This is an open chat without a main topic so feel free to join in and share from your experiences or simply ask questions that you have been wondering about...VL

This week it is all about the buzz and in reaching the ulitmate sexual highs, we are chatting about our thoughts on wands, vibes and cock rings, incluing different types and how we like to use them.

The topic today is playing with your Dom. We spend a lot of time talking about the things that the Dom does for, and to the sub but what are the things that the sub does for and to the Dom? How do you build this type of play into your dynamic so that both […]

Join Posy in the Library to swap thoughts on the book for this time - Venue In Furs - Leopold von Sacher-Masoch

Hello everyone. On this Friday I will have my husband Rob come on to answer any questions you might have about our dynamic. Master James Lee is in Ireland and it would be held at 2am for him, so I do not believe he can make it...VL

Today we ask each of you your memories of your most weird play scenes, by your standards of course. Where, When and maybe even WHAT! Come and share your either your memories, or aspirations!

Spanking is always a popular topic so we thought it was time to revisit! Please come along, ask questions and share your own experience. How do you approach a spanking session and what are you preferred techniques and positions?

Today is Valentines day, however, your connection is not just one day a year we are sure. Tell us about your D/s week and what things stand out as great and less so. Did you learn anything and what would you change.

Today we look at ways to create fear, excitement and more importantly how to transition from the 9-5 person you may be in a giver or receiver of pleasureable darkenss!