The SafeworD/s Club

This is a topic that is discussed on site a lot so we thought it would be good to focus on. How do you manage to be consistent with your D/s when things are happening round about. When things become less consistent how do you feel and how do you respond?

Please note the change in date for this chat which was originally scheduled for 27th Aug. Gosh it’s hot in my part of the UK at the moment! So it’s been the ideal opportunity to pull a chair into the shade and crack open our latest read – Fingersmith by Sarah Waters. Our protagonist, Sue, […]

Join Vixen and the other subs in the lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support.

Masturbation can play a large part of out sexual lives. We discuss how you masturbate, but more importantly, what imaginary do you require and how do you get it -to get off?

This week the topic is clothing and accessories. How do you use accessories to create the scene or get in the right head space? What of clothing and accessories do you use for different sorts of play or occasions. Do you use clothing as part of your Dominance and/or submission? BRING ALONG SOME PICTURES TO […]

Please join us for an open chat in the sub's Lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support. New members always warmly welcomed.

Today we talk about intimacy in our relationships. How do you create intimacy and make sure the level is right for you?

Removing one's visual sense during a sexual scene is a powerful act of control, however, it is not just picking up the nearest scarf! As the song goes. 'It ain't what you do, it's the way that you do it!" Today we talk about the use of blindfold and hoods, and how we can use […]

Please join us for an open chat in the sub's Lounge every Friday from 8.30pm central time for some sub chat, friendship and support. New members always warmly welcomed. Please note this chat is held at 8.30 pm CENTRAL time.

Today we discuss consistency in a relationship. Whether you are currently with a partner or not, how important is consistency to you, where would you like it applied and what are the benefits to those specific areas?

Today we unpack the box marked 'TRUST' and look at how trust works in a relationship in terms of security and promoting growth in a dynamic.