The SafeworD/s Club

While we all would like to play in a Dungeon where we could just let go, often there is a requirement for us to make the most of times when we might be overheard. Tonight we talk about the art of the silent orgasm and what things we can do to keep our secrets hidden. […]

This is an open chat for all. Please join in to chat, make friends and discuss D/s topics. Today we will discuss littles/middles and their Daddy Doms.

Continuing with the letter Q tonight we are asking (and hopefully answering) your D/s questions. Please come with a question - this can be directed at the group generally or to a particular person. Join us in The Red Room from 8pm - new members always welcome.

Join in to discuss interrogation play and any other type of role play you enjoy or would like to try. How do you get there mentally? Is it by dressing for the part or is it by simply submitting for the submissives and dominating for the Dominants?

Today we look at role play. Not only can it be used as just fun, it can also be a way of exploring new elements of kink and building confidence in your dynamic. Lift the lid on that dressing up box and join us in Dungeon to see what we can find!

Today we will discuss bringing ourselves pleasure through masturbating alone or with your partner as well as self inflictions. We can discuss the ways we bring pain to ourselves through our Dominants orders or for our own pleasures...

Continuing our journey through the kinky alphabet, today’s topic is R for Rope Play. How do you feel about rope, its element and what part does it play in your dynamic. Join us in The Red Room from 8pm to get all knotted! New members always welcome.

This evenings chat will be about our beginnings. What brought us interests in this lifestyle? This will be a wonderful way to get to know each other and share with any new members that have not heard our stories just yet. Join in and lets go back in time to the beginning of our journeys...

Continuing our journey through the kinky alphabet, today’s topic is S for safety. Probably the biggest element in the world we live in from private to the play. Join us in the Dungeon from 8pm. New members always welcome.

Taking our D/s hard limits and breaking past them or surpassing levels we had not before. We are always changing by adding new forms of play or taking out what did not work. Lets discuss the ways we have all evolved within our D/s dynamics...

Continuing our journey through the kinky alphabet, today’s topic is S for Service. What is your understanding of Service in a D/s relationship and does it play a part in your own dynamic? Join us in The Red Room from 8pm. New members always welcome.

What are some of the ways you stay in your D/s mindset while out in public? Lets share our ways of discretely or even not so discretely staying in D/s. Could it be with gestures and nods, in the way we dress or not dress, jeweler, rules that remain in place at all times. I […]

Moving from one environment to another can make it difficult to maintain your Dominant or submissive headspace. Today we are looking at transitions and how to manage them effectively. Join us in The Dungeon from 8pm. New members always welcome.

We will be discussing the many items we have bought and collect for play over the course of your D/s dynamics. What are some of your best buys and worst buys? Lets share them and the reasons why they were good or bad.

It takes a lot of courage and trust to expose the parts of yourself that you want to keep hidden. This week we are talking about vulnerability and what that means in a D/s relationship. From being tied and letting our Doms have complete access, to being shown to other, to photos and video and […]

Continuing with the letter T, this week is all about toys. What is the last toy you bought, how have you used it and what do you think? What is your favourite toy so far and which are still on your wish list? Join us in The Red Room from 8pm. New members always welcome.