Erotic humiliation as a concept was a hard limit for me at first because of my history. The idea of allowing myself to to be vulnerable in such a way was unthinkable because it terrified me.
As the relationship between my Sir and I evolved, he nurtured a trust from me that I thought I was incapable of yielding. It was his display of patience, respect, love and his own vulnerability that allowed me to sub-mit to consensual erotic humiliation.
The pleasure and excitement experienced from the exchange was unexpected. As Sir has said previously, there is a connection of the minds with us. This exchange was no exception. I knew what he wanted by looking up into his eyes and he knew I was willing by looking into mine. This shared intimacy was a defining moment, from my perspective it strengthened our emotional bond. There is a greater trust that exists now, an unquestioning acceptance.
This is an outcome I would have never anticipated and never would have experienced without feeling completely safe in my Sir’s presence.