Lessons Learnt With Sex Toys

So you want to buy a sex toy?  Well, like a princess, you will probably have to kiss a few frogs before finding the right one for you.  The right sex toys for you are about as individual as your finger prints.  The problem is, many of the toys are made for mass production and […]

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Red Flags in Online Relationships

When you initially go online to meet new people, it is easy to get sucked into the belief that everyone wants to be nice, and is generally good. This is a mistake- here is why:   -Possibility of ID theft -Possibility of catfishing -Possibility of blackmail or otherwise personally harmful incidence -Invasion of privacy or […]

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Consensual Non-Consent

This is a post that I wrote last year and posted on submissybut it seemed to fit with the ones on consent and on roleplay which were posted here already.   Sir and I have talked for a while about trying some ‘resistance play’. We both like the idea of a bit of a struggle and […]

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Consent

Consent is a serious topic and it is a complicated and contentious area in BDSM. For us consent is always present unless a safe word is used, but in reality Sir would never ask me to do something that I didn’t want to. The level of trust we have is huge and it means that […]

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Consent, Safety and Aftercare

In the relationship we have, consent is taken as a given.  This is because we trust each other and communicate fully with one another.  We have discussed limits, both hard and soft, and we make sure that we revisit these often.  We talk after each scene or play session and will go over what worked well […]

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