I think that this play is very personal to us both, how we do things may not be the way anyone else would, but
Category: Play, scenes and kink
Emotional Masochism
I have always had a good pain threshold. Pain was always something that I could manage and make work for me so I probably would
Emotionally Bound
The topic this week on The Safeword/s Club is bondage, and while MrH uses many forms of bondage (rope and verbal) I decided to write
Once Upon a Time ~ Using Storylines and Narrative
The power of the imagination Storylines and narrative can be a useful part of play, whether this is sexual or non-sexual. In it’s simplest form
Like to build your own fucking machine?
For some time I’ve looked through different videos that more or less show detailson fucking machines, and have picked up bits and pieces here and
Ready, Get set, Go! – planning scenes
We thought it might be useful to have a post about scenes and play which covered both our perspectives. Clearly the roles for Dom and
Kinky DIY
I have to admit that I am partial to a bit of DIY. It all stems from my Dad, who in my younger days, would
Fishnet Stockings, Where’s The Catch?
It wasn’t always fishnets; I have always loved underwear on a woman, even back as a kid when my Mum bought clothes in the 1970s
Consensual Non-Consent
This is a post that I wrote last year and posted on submissybut it seemed to fit with the ones on consent and on roleplay which
Roleplay
We recently had a chat at The SafeworD/s Club about Roleplay. In my preamble to the topic I described roleplay as the marmite of BDSM
Bottoms up to Anal Sex
Anal play is something that I have posted about a bit on submissy but as anal sex was the prompt for Kink of the Week I
Hypoxphilia (Breath Play)
THE FOLLOWING POST IS NOT AN ADVERTISEMENT TO PROMOTE BREATH PLAY. THE ACTIVITY CAN BE DANGEROUS AND POTENTIALLY FATAL. THE INFORMATION BELOW IS OPEN SOURCE
Holding Space
There are times when I need to be broken by him, taken apart and ripped wide open. There are times when he needs to break
Tickle Torture
Dominants will be referred to as male and submissives referred to as female in this post because that’s easiest for me to write about. Tickle
Cuckolding
What is a cuckold? A cuckold is man who finds pleasure in seeing his wife (or partner) having sex with other men, this can be