The prospect of taking play outwith the privacy of one’s home and playing in public at an event can often polarise opinions. Sometimes the answer is a resounding no, others…
Spanking it up at the SWC
As the focus for this week is spanking, we thought it would be good to get a bit of an insight into what some of us like about spanking, how…
Lessons Learnt With Sex Toys
So you want to buy a sex toy? Well, like a princess, you will probably have to kiss a few frogs before finding the right one for you. The right…
Let’s Play Pretend
Role Play allows you to be someone else or within an environment you might otherwise not be. It can be exciting seeing yourself and your partner in a different way….
Fear and Excitement
I think most people agree that there is a fine line between Fear and Excitement. Somewhere in our makeup, chemicals produce the emotions we feel and without digging too deep…
Needle Play – the Ins and the Outs
Needle play is something that often falls under the category of Edge Play, meaning that it comes at the edges of what many would view as safe and in indeed…
Warm Up and Cool Down
Our theme this week is warming up and cooling down so I wanted to focus on how this works within a D/s play relationship. These thoughts are based on my…
Forced Orgasm Scene
The first proper scene the we did when we started D/s was a forced orgasm scene and it remains one of the easiest ways for me to reach subspace. To…
Puppy Play
I think that this play is very personal to us both, how we do things may not be the way anyone else would, but I hope that it will…
Emotionally Bound
The topic this week on The Safeword/s Club is bondage, and while MrH uses many forms of bondage (rope and verbal) I decided to write about the bondage that we…
Once Upon a Time
Story-lines and narratives can be a useful part of play, whether this is sexual or non-sexual. In it’s simplest form this may include playing games together where you use…
Like to build your own fucking machine?
I’ve for some time looked through different videos that more or less show details on fucking machines, and have picked up bits and pieces here and there. The result is…
Ready, Get set, Go! – planning scenes
We thought it might be useful to have a post about scenes and play which covered both our perspectives. Clearly the roles for Dom and sub are quite different with…
Fishnet Stockings, Where’s The Catch?
It wasn’t always fishnets; I have always loved underwear on a woman, even back as a kid when my Mum bought clothes in the 1970s from catalogues. There I would…
Consensual Non-Consent
This is a post that I wrote last year and posted on submissybut it seemed to fit with the ones on consent and on roleplay which were posted here already. …
Bottoms up to Anal Sex
Anal play is something that I have posted about a bit on submissy but as anal sex was the prompt for Kink of the Week I thought that I would add…
9 Positions of Submission
In one of the early blog posts on submissy I wrote about the fact that HisLordship asked me to practice 9 positions of submission. What we did was to use one…
Hypoxphilia (Breath Play)
THE FOLLOWING POST IS NOT AN ADVERTISEMENT TO PROMOTE BREATH PLAY. THE ACTIVITY CAN BE DANGEROUS AND POTENTIALLY FATAL. THE INFORMATION BELOW IS OPEN SOURCE MATERIAL AND IS NOT DESIGNED…