For the majority of people who are into BDSM, pain and pleasure seem to walk hand in hand. How you feel and the way that
Category: Play, scenes and kink
Anal Training: beginner to expert guide
I really enjoy anal play of any kind and have done for quite a while. Anal sex is something PurpleSole and I jumped into doing
Collar n cuffs
We are not 24/7 D/s so day collars have never been on the list and even if we were 24/7 I don’t know if I
A Beginner’s Guide to Roleplay
Roleplay within a BDSM context can be exciting for some and daunting for others, so we thought it would be a good idea to put
Spanking and me
Spanking had never been a something we dabbled in. It had never been discussed. Never seen in a movie or read in a book. Never
Always have a Safeword
A lot of our play is impact play so, for us, a safeword is important to be able to stop play. Having said that I
Tell Me About … Bondage
Bondage is a huge part of our play. I like the feeling of excitment, nervousness and freedom that runs through me all at the same
Orgasms: The Icing on My Cake
In our early years I would say that orgasms were few and far between. Not through lack of opportunity as we’ve always had lots of
How To Install A Ceiling Mount
I have been interested in having a suspension point in the bedroom for sometime now. I was envious of those who managed to get their
Accessories and Mindset
The theme for our topic chat this week is accessories and mindset. This really goes further than just thinking about what we wear as part
Finding an Alternative Headspace
Everyone will be different as a headspace is very personal and individual. This is how it is for me and how it works in our
Primal play – bite me
Odaxelagnia is identified as a sexual paraphilia or kink whereby one experiences sexual pleasure and arousal from biting and/or being bitten. Odaxelagnia is sometimes associated with
Thinking about playing in public?
The prospect of taking play outwith the privacy of one’s home and playing in public at an event can often polarise opinions. Sometimes the answer
Spanking it up at the SWC
As the focus for this week is spanking, we thought it would be good to get a bit of an insight into what some of
Lessons Learnt With Sex Toys
So you want to buy a sex toy? Well, like a princess, you will probably have to kiss a few frogs before finding the right
Let’s Play Pretend
Role Play allows you to be someone else or within an environment you might otherwise not be. It can be exciting seeing yourself and your
Fear and Excitement
I think most people agree that there is a fine line between Fear and Excitement. Somewhere in our makeup, chemicals produce the emotions we feel
Needle Play – the Ins and the Outs
Needle play is something that often falls under the category of Edge Play, meaning that it comes at the edges of what many would view
Warm Up and Cool Down
Our theme this week is warming up and cooling down so I wanted to focus on how this works within a D/s play relationship. These
Forced Orgasm Scene
The first proper scene the we did when we started D/s was a forced orgasm scene and it remains one of the easiest ways for