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Category: Play, scenes and kink

Tell Me About … Pain
Play, scenes and kink

Tell Me About … Pain

16/01/202004/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

For the majority of people who are into BDSM, pain and pleasure seem to walk hand in hand. How you feel and the way that

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Anal Training: beginner to expert guide
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

Anal Training: beginner to expert guide

16/11/201905/04/2022 Littlegem

I really enjoy anal play of any kind and have done for quite a while. Anal sex is something PurpleSole and I jumped into doing

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Collar n cuffs
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Collar n cuffs

03/08/201904/04/2022 lilly

We are not 24/7 D/s so day collars have never been on the list and even if we were 24/7 I don’t know if I

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A Beginner’s Guide to Roleplay
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

A Beginner’s Guide to Roleplay

09/06/201905/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Roleplay within a BDSM context can be exciting for some and daunting for others, so we thought it would be a good idea to put

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Spanking and me
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Spanking and me

09/05/201909/05/2019 Emma Butler

Spanking had never been a something we dabbled in. It had never been discussed. Never seen in a movie or read in a book. Never

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Always have a Safeword
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Always have a Safeword

08/04/201928/05/2019 lilly

A lot of our play is impact play so, for us, a safeword is important to be able to stop play. Having said that I

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Tell Me About … Bondage
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Tell Me About … Bondage

21/03/201928/05/2019 lilly

Bondage is a huge part of our play. I like the feeling of excitment, nervousness and freedom that runs through me all at the same

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Orgasms: The Icing on My Cake
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Orgasms: The Icing on My Cake

11/03/201909/06/2019 lilly

In our early years I would say that orgasms were few and far between. Not through lack of opportunity as we’ve always had lots of

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How To Install A Ceiling Mount
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How To Install A Ceiling Mount

07/03/201916/12/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

I have been interested in having a suspension point in the bedroom for sometime now. I was envious of those who managed to get their

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Accessories and Mindset
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Accessories and Mindset

03/02/201905/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

The theme for our topic chat this week is accessories and mindset. This really goes further than just thinking about what we wear as part

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Finding an Alternative Headspace
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Finding an Alternative Headspace

02/12/201826/01/2019 Littlegem

Everyone will be different as a headspace is very personal and individual. This is how it is for me and how it works in our

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Play, scenes and kink

Primal play – bite me

02/12/2018 kisungura

Odaxelagnia is identified as a sexual paraphilia or kink whereby one experiences sexual pleasure and arousal from biting and/or being bitten. Odaxelagnia is sometimes associated with

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Play, scenes and kink

Thinking about playing in public?

18/11/2018 kisungura

The prospect of taking play outwith the privacy of one’s home and playing in public at an event can often polarise opinions. Sometimes the answer

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Play, scenes and kink

Spanking it up at the SWC

11/11/201811/11/2018 Missy (Founder)

As the focus for this week is spanking, we thought it would be good to get a bit of an insight into what some of

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Play, scenes and kink

Lessons Learnt With Sex Toys

03/11/201804/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

So you want to buy a sex toy?  Well, like a princess, you will probably have to kiss a few frogs before finding the right

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Play, scenes and kink

Let’s Play Pretend

29/10/2018 PurpleSole

Role Play allows you to be someone else or within an environment you might otherwise not be. It can be exciting seeing yourself and your

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Fear and Excitement
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Fear and Excitement

28/10/2018 HisLordship (Founder)

I think most people agree that there is a fine line between Fear and Excitement.  Somewhere in our makeup, chemicals produce the emotions we feel

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Play, scenes and kink

Needle Play – the Ins and the Outs

14/10/2018 Missy (Founder)

Needle play is something that often falls under the category of Edge Play, meaning that it comes at the edges of what many would view

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Play, scenes and kink

Warm Up and Cool Down

30/09/2018 Missy (Founder)

Our theme this week is warming up and cooling down so I wanted to focus on how this works within a D/s play relationship. These

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Play, scenes and kink

Forced Orgasm Scene

23/09/2018 Missy (Founder)

The first proper scene the we did when we started D/s was a forced orgasm scene and it remains one of the easiest ways for

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