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What is Double Penetration?
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What is Double Penetration?

24/04/202224/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

What is double penetration? Well, it may not be what you think, actually, it probably is if you’re reading this, however, just in case. What

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5 Things to consider about Mind Fucks?
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5 Things to consider about Mind Fucks?

19/04/202219/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

I’m sure those of you with some experience will know there are more than 5 things to consider about mind fucks, however, we have selected

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9 Popular Positions of submission for you to try
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9 Popular Positions of submission for you to try

10/04/202210/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

In one of the early blog posts on submissy I wrote about the fact that HisLordship asked me to practice 9 positions of submission. What we did

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Basic Things You Should Know About Fisting
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Basic Things You Should Know About Fisting

05/04/202205/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

What are the basic things to know about fisting? Apply common sense I would say apply common sense, however, that is a sliding scale for

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The lube we love ~ stick around and read on
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The lube we love ~ stick around and read on

05/04/202205/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Although in some corners of our still very vanilla world lube might be viewed as a shameful product, bought by people who are past their

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Layering Communication for a Successful Scene
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Layering Communication for a Successful Scene

03/04/202206/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

What is Layering Communication Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead the scene and take your partner with

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Things you should know about Erotic Humiliation
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Things you should know about Erotic Humiliation

04/01/202204/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Getting started with erotic humiliation Erotic humiliation is a difficult thing to discuss and explain because what humiliates one person erotically, won’t necessarily have an

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Leather Care Tips from Leatherman
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Leather Care Tips from Leatherman

28/11/202104/04/2022 Leatherman

Leather care for collars, cuffs, floggers, and whips. The smell is deeply earthy and slightly intoxicating.  The feel is strong, sometimes buttery soft and sometimes

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A Quick Guide to Getting Started with Impact Play
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A Quick Guide to Getting Started with Impact Play

12/11/202104/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Before we get started, what is impact play? Impact play is when one person is hit or struck by another person for the sexual gratification

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How To Put Yourself In BDSM Restraints
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How To Put Yourself In BDSM Restraints

22/10/202105/04/2022 CruelsSexPuppet

With more and more relationships taking place online these days, submissives are finding themselves doing many of the things their Doms usually do. Putting themselves

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Viewing of a submissive – first time camming
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Viewing of a submissive – first time camming

14/07/202114/07/2021 MJL's Vixen Lee

A bit of background For those of you who do not know me, I am Vixen Lee, Submissive of (Master) James Lee. This post is

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What you need to know about Electroplay
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What you need to know about Electroplay

10/07/202104/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Electroplay is something that we enjoy and through chats on the topic, we have managed to pique the interest of some of the other members

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Starting out with BDSM Safety
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Starting out with BDSM Safety

16/05/202104/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

BDSM can involve placing yourself in a vulnerable position, both physically and emotionally, so it goes without saying that safety will be on your mind.

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How to Master Orgasm Control
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How to Master Orgasm Control

15/04/202116/04/2021 Missy (Founder)

I realised that we didn’t have a post about orgasm control so thought it would be an idea to write one. As always, there is

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So you want to try rope play?
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So you want to try rope play?

24/01/202124/01/2021 Missy (Founder)

Rope play is the topic for Tell Me About this week and I realised we didn’t have a post about it on our blog so

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Impact Play
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Impact Play

17/11/202004/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

I tend to think that impact play is one of the first things that people think of when conjuring up images of BDSM. There might

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Limits and Boundaries
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Limits and Boundaries

22/08/202004/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

In relationships, knowing your partner’s limits and boundaries is essential. If you don’t know what they are then you can’t observe them. Neither can you

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Wax Play- Naked Flame
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Wax Play- Naked Flame

10/04/202004/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

For the purposes of full disclosure, I haven’t done a great deal of wax play, or I should say, we haven’t.  It’s not that we

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Edge Play
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Edge Play

11/03/202004/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

There’s a certain comfortableness about edge play that draws me back to thinking about it; I guess that is part of the attraction.   I wasn’t

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When Reality becomes Fantasy
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When Reality becomes Fantasy

23/02/2020 lilly

In the words of my Sir. SX Reality… So, we plucked up the courage to visit the sex/swinger’s club for the third time. Full of

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We opened our doors to the club 6 years ago with the intention of creating a space that was safe and inclusive for people with an interest in Dominance and Submission. Overall, we think we achieved that aim and met a host of great people and made many new friends along the way.
The site has undergone many transformations over the years to keep it fresh and accessible, however, that takes a lot of time and support which we find now in short supply. So, to that end the SWC closes its doors at the end of March 2023.
We want to thank everyone that has invested their time and creativity over the years and to wish you all a safe and happy life!