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Category: Oldies but Goodies

Intimacy
Building a D/s Dynamic Oldies but Goodies

Intimacy

20/09/202004/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

What is Intimacy? Intimacy is a feeling of knowing another person deeply and feeling deeply known by them. It is created over time and comes

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How to be Dominant or submissive and Romantic
Living a D/s Lifestyle Oldies but Goodies

How to be Dominant or submissive and Romantic

11/02/202004/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Sometimes people in D/s relationships feel that there is little room left for being romantic. Why is this? Well one reason could be because the

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Training as a submissive wife
Living a D/s Lifestyle Oldies but Goodies

Training as a submissive wife

18/11/201904/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Training is a term often thrown around in the world of Dominance and submission, but to find out what it actually means and involves can

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Anal Training: beginner to expert guide
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

Anal Training: beginner to expert guide

16/11/201905/04/2022 Littlegem

I really enjoy anal play of any kind and have done for quite a while. Anal sex is something PurpleSole and I jumped into doing

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Rituals: the why the how and the what
Building a D/s Dynamic Oldies but Goodies

Rituals: the why the how and the what

14/09/201905/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Why we have rituals For most D/s couples, rituals are quite an important part of what they do. Although they are often the small things,

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Brats – The Wild Submissives
Living a D/s Lifestyle Oldies but Goodies

Brats – The Wild Submissives

13/08/201905/04/2022 Guest Author

Brats – The Wild submissives is a guest post by Deviant Succubus. Although not a member of The SWC, she is a regular contributor to

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A Beginner’s Guide to Roleplay
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

A Beginner’s Guide to Roleplay

09/06/201905/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Roleplay within a BDSM context can be exciting for some and daunting for others, so we thought it would be a good idea to put

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Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly
Building a D/s Dynamic Oldies but Goodies

Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly

11/02/201905/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

Well, this week love is in the air and with the approach of Valentines Day, romance is on the agenda. For many there is a

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Accessories and Mindset
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Accessories and Mindset

03/02/201905/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

The theme for our topic chat this week is accessories and mindset. This really goes further than just thinking about what we wear as part

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Emotional Masochism
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

Emotional Masochism

10/09/201804/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

I have always had a good pain threshold. Pain was always something that I could manage and make work for me so I probably would

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Once Upon a Time ~ Using Storylines and Narrative
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Once Upon a Time ~ Using Storylines and Narrative

11/08/201804/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

The power of the imagination Storylines and narrative can be a useful part of play, whether this is sexual or non-sexual. In it’s simplest form

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Like to build your own fucking machine?
Oldies but Goodies Play, scenes and kink

Like to build your own fucking machine?

24/07/201806/04/2022 MrHamD

For some time I’ve looked through different videos that more or less show detailson fucking machines, and have picked up bits and pieces here and

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Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track
Building a D/s Dynamic Oldies but Goodies

Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track

03/09/201704/04/2022 Missy (Founder)

You can’t have a rainbow without a little rain and we all know that D/s is one big and beautiful rainbow. It is magical, it

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