What is Intimacy? Intimacy is a feeling of knowing another person deeply and feeling deeply known by them. It is created over time and comes
Category: Oldies but Goodies
How to be Dominant or submissive and Romantic
Sometimes people in D/s relationships feel that there is little room left for being romantic. Why is this? Well one reason could be because the
Training as a submissive wife
Training is a term often thrown around in the world of Dominance and submission, but to find out what it actually means and involves can
Anal Training: beginner to expert guide
I really enjoy anal play of any kind and have done for quite a while. Anal sex is something PurpleSole and I jumped into doing
Rituals: the why the how and the what
Why we have rituals For most D/s couples, rituals are quite an important part of what they do. Although they are often the small things,
Brats – The Wild Submissives
Brats – The Wild submissives is a guest post by Deviant Succubus. Although not a member of The SWC, she is a regular contributor to
A Beginner’s Guide to Roleplay
Roleplay within a BDSM context can be exciting for some and daunting for others, so we thought it would be a good idea to put
Meeting Emotional Needs and Daring Greatly
Well, this week love is in the air and with the approach of Valentines Day, romance is on the agenda. For many there is a
Accessories and Mindset
The theme for our topic chat this week is accessories and mindset. This really goes further than just thinking about what we wear as part
Emotional Masochism
I have always had a good pain threshold. Pain was always something that I could manage and make work for me so I probably would
Once Upon a Time ~ Using Storylines and Narrative
The power of the imagination Storylines and narrative can be a useful part of play, whether this is sexual or non-sexual. In it’s simplest form
Like to build your own fucking machine?
For some time I’ve looked through different videos that more or less show detailson fucking machines, and have picked up bits and pieces here and
Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track
You can’t have a rainbow without a little rain and we all know that D/s is one big and beautiful rainbow. It is magical, it