Effective communication is one of the foundations of a Dominant submissive relationship. Actually, effective communication is one of the foundations of any healthy relationship, but
Category: Living a D/s Lifestyle
What you need to know about Middles
I started a forum thread about middles which you can find here. It seemed that being a middle was something that lots of people weren’t
Addicted to Love ~ the truth about subfrenzy
Many new submissives experience subfrenzy without knowing anything about it. Although subfrenzy is something discussed in most BDSM circles, the can be a scarcity of
A self care focus for your D/s relationship
The topic for wicked wednesday this time is self care. I have written about Why D/s helps with my self care over on Submissy but
What Do I Get Out of Being a Sex Slave?
I am a slave. There are many types of D/s dynamics, and often couples fall into more than one type or category, or they may
Then there were three ~ D/s outside a primary relationship
Sub Mace and Vixen Lee return to consider, together, how a D/s Dynamic outside of a primary relationship can work. Relationships with the people we
Journaling For Doms?
For subs? I guess that when the term journaling comes up in a D/s conversation most people would initially associate that with a submissive practice.
Lockdown..still.
These are unprecedented times without doubt. If you are reading this in 2040 maybe the financial impact of Covid-19 may be over. The unfortunate thing
Codependency and D/s
In psychological terms codependency refers to a relationship which is unhealthy. While, as an English teacher I want to say that the prefix co means
How to be Dominant or submissive and Romantic
Sometimes people in D/s relationships feel that there is little room left for being romantic. Why is this? Well one reason could be because the
Discreetly showing a D/s-relationship in public
If you are in a 24/7-D/s-relationship, after some time the question may arise as to whether it would be possible to show this way of
Self Reflection. Me?
One would assume that having been in a D/s relationship for a fair few years now I would have a good grasp on where I
Training as a submissive wife
Training is a term often thrown around in the world of Dominance and submission, but to find out what it actually means and involves can
Brats – The Wild Submissives
Brats – The Wild submissives is a guest post by Deviant Succubus. Although not a member of The SWC, she is a regular contributor to
Being Vulnerable: Knowledge is Power
I am a private person. I wouldn’t like to be seen as vulnerable or on the flip side, as some sort of warrior princess hero
Submission and I
I had a little fantasy in my little box, locked away until….. you guessed it, ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’. I’ve never been a lover of
Porn To Be Wild
Trying to prise apart the rain soaked and bloated pages of a discarded copy of Playboy was my first real challenge with porn. There was
I’m A Changing Man
There are people of various genders who have the role of dominant in their relationship, and find it something that is naturally a good fit.
Surviving the Holidays
We thought that it would be a good idea to do a collaborative post for this topic as everyone manages things a little differently.
Life is a game of give and take
Our theme this week is ‘festive fun’ so it seemed to make sense to think about giving. There is a huge focus on giving during