Little Me

*Each little is different and there is no one right way to be little. I am describing my little self and the things I do and like when I’m little.*   My little self is very fluid. I can go between being little and being big pretty quickly. I was a responsible child who never […]

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Being a middle

I have lots of friends who identify as being little and are in DD/lg type dynamics. I had always thought that wasn’t me so it came as a shock when I finally realised that actually it was. I think it took me so long to work out because I wasn’t very interested in the things […]

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Non-sexual Play

When i think about vanilla life, just having general relationships outside of kink, i think about how important it is to laugh. i mean, if it isn’t fun, or at least minimally enjoyable, why engage? This leads me to the topic of nonsexual play. i am going to write about it specifically for romantic relationships, […]

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Finding and defining your little

Who is your little self? In the book The Big Book For Littles, the author Penny Barber lists a few pages of questions, with the invitation to blog about them. The questions are designed to help you identify and explain your little side, to help you, your Big, and your friends understand you. When i […]

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When times get rough: Reset

This post was originally shared on Married and Owned Needing a reset Resets are not just scheduled meetings, they are necessary moments when one or both of us feels out of control, stressed out, or distant. When babygirl needs a reset my need for a reset is often triggered when the noise in my head […]

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