Advent Calendar

The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar

For the last three years I have completed some sort of D/s Advent Calendar. If you are interested, you can find the details here, but essentially they were about giving to HL, celebrating our dynamic, and doing something nice for each other in the run-up to Christmas. This year has been so different for everyone […]

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On the inside - image of LL at the mirror

On the inside

I see a woman that is scared, but also a woman that is strong, fierce, loving and not a quitter. Not because of how I look or the compliments that I received, but what I have in my heart. Everyone wants to look beautiful and believe me you are, but whats more important is what […]

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Book Group

The Book Group Is Back

We are delighted to announce that The SafeworD/s Club Book Group is back. New and improved and starting from the 25th June, monthly book discussions will commence! To find out more about how to get involved and the format the book club will take, please read on. Your Host The SWC Book Group will be […]

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Chat night

A SafeworD/s Club Chat Night

Twice a week we have a chat here on The SafeworD/s Club, it’s a bit like a munch really, an informal gathering of like-minded kinky folk.  We do have topics that we base these discussions around, and the chat on Sunday the 5th January 2020 was about what we have learned in the last year, […]

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tell me about vulnerability - being vulnerable

Tell Me About …

The SafeworD/s Club is proud to present ….. our newest project, ‘Tell Me About … Dominance and submission“. First we had the chat, then we had the forums, the we had the blog and NOW we have a writing prompt! Ok so why start a writing prompt? There are lots of amazing writing prompts and […]

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Finding a Community

Sometimes you just get one of those overwhelming feelings that what you have done is right. That is it has all come together and it is what you wanted it to be. That happened yesterday for me when we held the chat for Emily. As soon as news spread, people began to log on and […]

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Elust 105

Photo courtesy of Mrs Fever Welcome to Elust 105– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #106 Start with the rules, […]

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Inside Eroticon

A few of my fellow bloggers have asked me to write about my experience at Eroticon, ‘a weekend of learning, socialising and fun for sex bloggers, erotica writers and erotic creatives’. I had never really considered myself to be in any of these categories so I was a little worried that I wouldn’t fit in but […]

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SWC Update!

When we set up the site we wanted to host the topic chats, which are always well supported, but we also wanted to have a place for members to come and chat about other aspects of D/s with like-minded people. In order for the open chat to work on a new site we thought that […]

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Happy New Year

As 2017 draws to a close, we wanted to thank you all very much for your continued support with The SafeworD/s Club. It was always our intention that this should be a community which was defined by the members and you have all helped in establishing a place which is welcoming, inclusive and supportive. It […]

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SWC Book Group

We are pleased to announce the arrival of our brand new SWC Book Group. Please CLICK HERE to join the group and then we will keep you up-to-date via email about what is going on.   Details of book chats and discussion threads can be found on OUR FORUM where you can also get involved by joining […]

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Hello Yellow

Tomorrow is World Metal Health day so I wanted to take a minute just to raise awareness for that.  At work we are wearing a ‘touch of yellow’ in order to highlight this as there are growing numbers of young people in schools who are managing with mental health issues.  Since joining the wonderful world […]

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According to the internet, a community is a place where people come together to share a common interest.   That I suppose, could be the problem with D/s for new people; they search for some hidden meaning or secret handshake.  I too waited for some bolt of lightening that would make me understand what I […]

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And next, here comes the Blog

Just over two months ago, HisLordship and I opened the virtual doors of The SafeworD/s Club.  The idea behind the site was to provide a safe and friendly place for Dominants and submissives to come along, meet others, and chat. Our thinking was that we wanted to be able to provide somewhere for people to […]

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New Event for this Week

As an addition to the calendar for this week, we would like to let you know about a second Dom and sub topic chat. Due to the fact that most of our chats take place at a UK time, we wanted to offer something for those of you who are across the pond and may […]

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