Well, this week love is in the air and with the approach of Valentines Day, romance is on the agenda. For many there is a
Category: Building a D/s Dynamic
Limits – when a NO becomes a YES
Limits! I tend to think there is always a little bit of pressure placed on D/s couples to do what other people do. I’m not
Respect the Rules
Rules are pretty key to our relationship, although even without that I am a person who likes to have rules to follow. I suppose that
Consent, Safety and Aftercare
In the relationship we have, consent is taken as a given. This is because we trust each other and communicate fully with one another. We
The important of setting limits
Starting out and agreeing limits When we first started out, HisLordship and I looked over a limits list together. It is really important in a
She’s Smarter Than the Average Bear!
Inspiration for a posts come from many sources, however, it is always good to read another person’s experiences in which you find reflections of your
The Power Exchange
The power exchange that takes place in our D/s relationship is a key part of what keeps our dynamic alive, but it is not something
Communication and D/s
Communication has been the key in helping us to build and maintain our D/s dynamic. For us, the foundations are love, trust, respect, honesty and
Trust
Trust is vital in any relationship. It is one of the cornerstones and without it the relationship will soon start to crumble. In a relationship
Starting out and managing a knowledge gap
Since we started the SWC I have had the pleasure of reading the hopes, dreams and exasperations of both subs and Doms. One recurring theme
Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track
You can’t have a rainbow without a little rain and we all know that D/s is one big and beautiful rainbow. It is magical, it