Spanking it up at the SWC

As the focus for this week is spanking, we thought it would be good to get a bit of an ...
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Lessons Learnt With Sex Toys

So you want to buy a sex toy?  Well, like a princess, you will probably have to kiss a few ...
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Let’s Play Pretend

Role Play allows you to be someone else or within an environment you might otherwise not be. It can be ...
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Fear and Excitement

I think most people agree that there is a fine line between Fear and Excitement.  Somewhere in our makeup, chemicals ...
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Needle Play – the Ins and the Outs

Needle play is something that often falls under the category of Edge Play, meaning that it comes at the edges ...
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Warm Up and Cool Down

Our theme this week is warming up and cooling down so I wanted to focus on how this works within ...
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Forced Orgasm Scene

The first proper scene the we did when we started D/s was a forced orgasm scene and it remains one ...
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Puppy Play

I think that this play is very personal to us both, how we do things may not be the way ...
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DIY Bed Restraint System

When we first started exploring bondage, which was pretty early on for us, like before we moved in together, Daddy ...
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Emotionally Bound

The topic this week on The Safeword/s Club is bondage, and while MrH uses many forms of bondage (rope and ...
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Once Upon a Time

Story-lines and narratives can be a useful part of play, whether this is sexual or non-sexual. In it's simplest form ...
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Like to build your own fucking machine?

I've for some time looked through different videos that more or less show details on fucking machines, and have picked ...
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Ready, Get set, Go!

We thought it might be useful to have a post about scenes and play which covered both our perspectives. Clearly ...
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Pervertable Chat Notes

Hello! The following post contains discussion points from the chat hosted at The Safeword/s Club. Join us for our next ...
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Kinky DIY

I have to admit that I am partial to a bit of DIY. It all stems from my Dad, who ...
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Toy Storage & Organization

This post was originally posted on http://www.marriedandowned.com Our first post! Eeeeeee! So Daddy and i have had to get creative ...
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Fishnet Stockings, Where’s The Catch?

It wasn't always fishnets; I have always loved underwear on a woman, even back as a kid when my Mum ...
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Consensual Non-Consent

This is a post that I wrote last year and posted on submissybut it seemed to fit with the ones ...
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Roleplay

We recently had a chat at The SafeworD/s Club about Roleplay. In my preamble to the topic I described roleplay ...
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Bottoms up to Anal Sex

Anal play is something that I have posted about a bit on submissy but as anal sex was the prompt ...
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9 Positions of Submission

In one of the early blog posts on submissy I wrote about the fact that HisLordship asked me to practice ...
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Hypoxphilia (Breath Play)

THE FOLLOWING POST IS NOT AN ADVERTISEMENT TO PROMOTE BREATH PLAY. THE ACTIVITY CAN BE DANGEROUS AND POTENTIALLY FATAL. THE ...
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Setting Limits

When we first started out, HisLordship and I looked over a limits list together. It is really important in a ...
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Tickle Torture

Dominants will be referred to as male and submissives referred to as female in this post because that's easiest for ...
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Cuckolding

What is a cuckold? A cuckold is man who finds pleasure in seeing his wife (or partner) having sex with ...
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