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Limits – when a NO becomes a YES

Limits!  I tend to think there is always a little bit of pressure placed on D/s couples to do what ...
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Respect the Rules

Rules are pretty key to our relationship, although even without that I am a person who likes to have rules ...
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How to Create, Implement, and Enforce Rules

The following post has been co-written, because we feel that a Dominant and submissive perspective to rules is important. Please ...
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‘It aint what you do it’s the way that you do it.’

To quote Bananarama, "It aint what you do it's the way that you do it, and that's what gets results." ...
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Control Issues and Submission

I like to be in control. Well, that's not entirely accurate - I hate to feel out of control. At ...
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A new Dom’s tale. To infinity and beyond

Here we are around 6 months into this journey. I was asked to write this and was initially nervous about ...
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She’s Smarter Than the Average Bear!

Inspiration for a posts come from many sources, however, it is always good to read another person's experiences in which ...
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The Power Exchange

The power exchange that takes place in our D/s relationship is a key part of what keeps our dynamic alive, ...
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Communication and D/s

Communication has been the key in helping us to build and maintain our D/s dynamic. For us, the foundations are ...
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Trust

Trust is vital in any relationship. It is one of the cornerstones and without it the relationship will soon start ...
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Starting Out

Since we started the SWC I have had the pleasure of reading the hopes, dreams and exasperations of both subs ...
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Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track

You can’t have a rainbow without a little rain and we all know that D/s is one big and beautiful ...
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What If He Won’t Join In

When I started researching D/s I joined another online community and despite my normal introversion I jumped right into the ...
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