Consensual Non-Consent

This is a post that I wrote last year and posted on submissybut it seemed to fit with the ones ...
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Monkey’s New Family

(Author's Note: Another story written by request for a friend. It's about a monkey, and family. My apologies to snakes ...
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Never Tangle With a Medusa Princess

(Author’s Note: This story is the fourth in a series of stories that feature princesses, twisted fairy tales, and an ...
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The Little Puppy’s Meow

(Author's Note: A friend asked for a story with a talking tree and a dog that meows. If you have ...
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Roleplay

We recently had a chat at The SafeworD/s Club about Roleplay. In my preamble to the topic I described roleplay ...
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Consent

Consent is a serious topic and it is a complicated and contentious area in BDSM. For us consent is always ...
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Consent, Safety and Aftercare

In the relationship we have, consent is taken as a given. This is because we trust each other and communicate ...
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A new Dom’s tale. To infinity and beyond

Here we are around 6 months into this journey. I was asked to write this and was initially nervous about ...
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Never Claw a Werewolf Princess (Little Bedtime Stories #3)

(Author’s Note: This story is the third in a series of stories that feature princesses, twisted fairy tales, and an ...
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Big Bear and Little Cub

(Author's Note: Many of my stories are requested by friends. This was as well. There were no specifics. She just ...
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Bottoms up to Anal Sex

Anal play is something that I have posted about a bit on submissy but as anal sex was the prompt ...
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Happy New Year

As 2017 draws to a close, we wanted to thank you all very much for your continued support with The ...
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The Fierce and Formidable Dragon

(Author's Note: This story came about in a unique way. I was in chat on another site and chat was ...
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Never Bite a Vampire Princess (Little Bedtime Stories #2)

(Author’s Note: This story is the second in a series of stories that feature princesses, twisted fairy tales, and an ...
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The Perfect Gumdrop

(Author's Note: A friend asked for this story. She wanted it to be about a gumdrop. Not quite sure if ...
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Never Kiss a Zombie Princess (Little Bedtime Stories #1)

(Author's Note: This story is the first in a series of stories that feature princesses, twisted fairy tales, and an ...
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SWC Book Group

We are pleased to announce the arrival of our brand new SWC Book Group. Please CLICK HERE to join the ...
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9 Positions of Submission

In one of the early blog posts on submissy I wrote about the fact that HisLordship asked me to practice ...
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Hypoxphilia (Breath Play)

THE FOLLOWING POST IS NOT AN ADVERTISEMENT TO PROMOTE BREATH PLAY. THE ACTIVITY CAN BE DANGEROUS AND POTENTIALLY FATAL. THE ...
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Holding Space

There are times when I need to be broken by him, taken apart and ripped wide open. There are times ...
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How I told my husband I wanted a Daddy

It was very early on in our D/s, through my reading and chatting with others I was discovering more of ...
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Setting Limits

When we first started out, HisLordship and I looked over a limits list together. It is really important in a ...
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Hello Yellow

Tomorrow is World Metal Health day so I wanted to take a minute just to raise awareness for that. At ...
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She’s Smarter Than the Average Bear!

Inspiration for a posts come from many sources, however, it is always good to read another person's experiences in which ...
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The Power Exchange

The power exchange that takes place in our D/s relationship is a key part of what keeps our dynamic alive, ...
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Communication and D/s

Communication has been the key in helping us to build and maintain our D/s dynamic. For us, the foundations are ...
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D/s Isn’t Everything – It’s Something

Having experienced a few bumps, humps and black holes during our relationship, Missy and I have never lost sight of ...
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Trust

Trust is vital in any relationship. It is one of the cornerstones and without it the relationship will soon start ...
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The SWC Events Week Beginning 11/09/17

The OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on SUNDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm as usual. On ...
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Community

According to the internet, a community is a place where people come together to share a common interest. That I ...
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Dom Drop

In a recent chat event on the SWC many subs were interested to hear about Dom Drop, what that felt ...
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Weekly Discussion thread 04/09/17

What are your favourite pervertables? ...
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Tickle Torture

Dominants will be referred to as male and submissives referred to as female in this post because that's easiest for ...
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Starting Out

Since we started the SWC I have had the pleasure of reading the hopes, dreams and exasperations of both subs ...
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Cuckolding

What is a cuckold? A cuckold is man who finds pleasure in seeing his wife (or partner) having sex with ...
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The SWC Events week beginning 04/09/17

The OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on SUNDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm as usual. On ...
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Navigating Bumps: Communication and getting back on track

You can’t have a rainbow without a little rain and we all know that D/s is one big and beautiful ...
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What If He Won’t Join In

When I started researching D/s I joined another online community and despite my normal introversion I jumped right into the ...
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Sub Drop

Recently we had a Topic Chat about sub drop and Dom drop which was quite interesting so I thought that ...
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EVENT TO BE RESCEDULED – Dom and sub Topic Chat / Bondage and Restraint pt 2 / 8pm-9pm EDT

Our Bondage and Restraint aficionado, Emily, will not be able to host her chat on the 30th August between 8pm ...
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Weekly Discussion Thread 28/08/17

What would be your favourite D/s holiday destination, and why? ...
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The SWC Events week beginning 28/08/17

As usual we will have our OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS on SUNDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm. We have two ...
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Border line

I read a post today by Xtac who told the tale of his recent journey through an airport and the ...
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Journaling as a Submissive Implement

My submission is the expression of my love and devotion for my husband. It is part of me and makes ...
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And next, here comes the Blog

Just over two months ago, HisLordship and I opened the virtual doors of The SafeworD/s Club. The idea behind the ...
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The SWC Events week beginning 21/08/17

The OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on SUNDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm as usual. On ...
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The SWC Events week beginning 14/08/17

As usual we will have our OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS on SUNDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm. We have two ...
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Weekly Discussion Thread 14/08/17

What do you most enjoy about bondage? ...
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Weekly Discussion Thread w/b 07.08.17

What is the most important thing you have learnt about being in a D/s relationship? ...
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Weekly Events week beginning 07/08/17

The OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on SUNDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm as usual. On ...
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New Forum – Dom, Sub or Switch …..?

Based on a conversation in the Main Lounge the other night, we have added a new forum. It is meant ...
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Weekly Discussion Thread w/b 31.07.17

What is your favourite spanking implement? ...
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Weekly Events week beginning 31/07/17

As usual we will have our OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS on SUNDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm. We have two ...
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Weekly Events week beginning 24/07/17

The OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on SUNDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm. We had two ...
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Weekly Discussion Thread wb 24/07/17

What do you use for toy storage? ...
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New Event for this Week

As an addition to the calendar for this week, we would like to let you know about a second Dom ...
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SafeworD/s Events week beginning 17/07/17

As usual, the OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on MONDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm. As ...
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Weekly Discussion Thread w/b 17/07/17

Who in your vanilla life knows about your D/s and what was their reaction? ...
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Introducing The SafeworD/s Club Forums

We are really pleased that so far we have had lots of members come along to support the chats. They ...
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SafeworD/s Events week beginning 10/07/17

As usual, the OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS this week will take place on MONDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm. We ...
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SafeworD/s Events Week beginning 03/07/17

This week we continue with the OPEN DOM AND SUB CHATS on MONDAY and THURSDAY from 7pm. Although we will ...
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Little Party

Attention all littles out there. I wanted to ask you to please support to my friends who have kindly agreed ...
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SafeworD/s Events Week beginning 26/06/17

This week is a busy week at The SafeworD/s Club. Not only will we have our regular open Dom and ...
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Come and Join Us

Please drop in and say hello: Mondays and Thursdays from 7pm until late ...
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Next Event

Please join us tomorrow for the first of our open chat evenings where Dominants and submissives can meet, talk and ...
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Thank you

We just wanted to say a huge thank you to all those of you who made it to stop by ...
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Opening Night

Thank you to all of you who have shown an interest in the club so far, and to those of ...
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Welcome

The SafeworD/s Club is now open for business so please register and have a look around. You will find details ...
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