rituals

Rituals: the why the how and the what

Why we have rituals For most D/s couples, rituals are quite an important part of what they do. Although they are often the small things, an action, a word, a deed, they can help to keep the right mindset for both of you. They do this by reinforcing the power exchange and essentially highlighting the […]

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Brats

Brats – The Wild Submissives

Brats – The Wild submissives is a guest post by Deviant Succubus. Although not a member of The SWC, she is a regular contributor to Tell Me About… and we are delighted that she agreed to write this piece for us.  What is a brat in BDSM and D/s? Both within the kink community and […]

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collar n cuffs

Collar n cuffs

We are not 24/7 D/s so day collars have never been on the list and even if we were 24/7 I don’t know if I would have one anyway. We have been married for 25 years, Sir has never had a wedding ring and I rarely wear one. It just isn’t a priority for us. […]

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It’s all yours Sir

It’s all yours Sir

During day to day life we work in unison.  There is always a list of jobs to do as in every household.   We each have things that we are naturally better at and will work together to keep the list to a minimum. Our formal power exchange takes place, before play, in the bedroom so […]

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Spanking for speeding

A Spanking For Speeding

I was speeding down a road where it is very common to do so for most drivers. This particular morning as I sped along, I noticed a patrol car parked on a side street facing the street I was on. The adrenaline kicked in and my heart was racing, I had lifted my foot from […]

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humiliation was a limit

Erotic Humiliation was a Limit

Erotic humiliation as a concept was a hard limit for me at first because of my history. The idea of allowing myself to to be vulnerable in such a way was unthinkable because it terrified me. As the relationship between my Sir and I evolved, he nurtured a trust from me that I thought I […]

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Holidays

Holidays are coming

Yay, holidays are coming but wait…  Usually we have a couple of afternoons to ourselves each week, to do what we want, be as noisy as we like, but with the school holidays comes a temporary stop to our afternoon fun.  A 6 week summer school holiday is a long time to tone down the […]

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