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When Reality becomes Fantasy
Play, scenes and kink

When Reality becomes Fantasy

23/02/2020 lilly

In the words of my Sir. SX Reality… So, we plucked up the courage to visit the sex/swinger’s club for the third time. Full of

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Prêt-à-porter review
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Prêt-à-porter review

13/10/2019 lilly

The Prêt-à-porter by Satisfyer arrives in packaging which looks stylish, textured Matt black with gold writing, something classy that you want to buy. Inside the

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Collar n cuffs
Play, scenes and kink

Collar n cuffs

03/08/201904/04/2022 lilly

We are not 24/7 D/s so day collars have never been on the list and even if we were 24/7 I don’t know if I

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It’s all yours Sir
Exploring Dominance and Submission

It’s all yours Sir

20/07/201905/04/2022 lilly

During day to day life we work in unison.  There is always a list of jobs to do as in every household.   We each have

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Holidays are coming
Exploring Dominance and Submission

Holidays are coming

17/06/201905/04/2022 lilly

Yay, holidays are coming but wait…  Usually we have a couple of afternoons to ourselves each week, to do what we want, be as noisy

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Always have a Safeword
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Always have a Safeword

08/04/201928/05/2019 lilly

A lot of our play is impact play so, for us, a safeword is important to be able to stop play. Having said that I

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Tell Me About … Bondage
Play, scenes and kink

Tell Me About … Bondage

21/03/201928/05/2019 lilly

Bondage is a huge part of our play. I like the feeling of excitment, nervousness and freedom that runs through me all at the same

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Orgasms: The Icing on My Cake
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Orgasms: The Icing on My Cake

11/03/201909/06/2019 lilly

In our early years I would say that orgasms were few and far between. Not through lack of opportunity as we’ve always had lots of

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Being Vulnerable: Knowledge is Power
Living a D/s Lifestyle

Being Vulnerable: Knowledge is Power

27/02/201909/06/2019 lilly

I am a private person. I wouldn’t like to be seen as vulnerable or on the flip side, as some sort of warrior princess hero

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Submission and I
Living a D/s Lifestyle

Submission and I

18/02/201918/02/2019 lilly

I had a little fantasy in my little box, locked away until….. you guessed it, ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’. I’ve never been a lover of

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It's Time To Close The Club

We opened our doors to the club 6 years ago with the intention of creating a space that was safe and inclusive for people with an interest in Dominance and Submission. Overall, we think we achieved that aim and met a host of great people and made many new friends along the way.
The site has undergone many transformations over the years to keep it fresh and accessible, however, that takes a lot of time and support which we find now in short supply. So, to that end the SWC closes its doors at the end of March 2023.
We want to thank everyone that has invested their time and creativity over the years and to wish you all a safe and happy life!

 

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