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What is Double Penetration?
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What is Double Penetration?

24/04/202224/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

What is double penetration? Well, it may not be what you think, actually, it probably is if you’re reading this, however, just in case. What

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5 Things to consider about Mind Fucks?
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5 Things to consider about Mind Fucks?

19/04/202219/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

I’m sure those of you with some experience will know there are more than 5 things to consider about mind fucks, however, we have selected

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Basic Things You Should Know About Fisting
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Basic Things You Should Know About Fisting

05/04/202205/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

What are the basic things to know about fisting? Apply common sense I would say apply common sense, however, that is a sliding scale for

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Layering Communication for a Successful Scene
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Layering Communication for a Successful Scene

03/04/202206/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

What is Layering Communication Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead the scene and take your partner with

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How Do I Get My Dom To Listen?
Building a D/s Dynamic

How Do I Get My Dom To Listen?

29/10/202104/01/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

One of the key success factors of any relationship is effective communication. I know for sure over the years that my sub (Missy) has internally

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THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT
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THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT

12/05/202104/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

It is hard to believe that missy and I have been running the SafeworD/s Club for nearly 5 years. When I think back to the

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Aftercare
Building a D/s Dynamic

Aftercare

03/12/202004/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

More often that not I read, or see images depicting aftercare in D/s – Kinky play scenarios where the sub is wrapped up to help

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Impact Play
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Impact Play

17/11/202004/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

I tend to think that impact play is one of the first things that people think of when conjuring up images of BDSM. There might

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Review – Tongue Mermaid Remote Sex Toy
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Review – Tongue Mermaid Remote Sex Toy

06/07/202006/07/2020 HisLordship (Founder)

First impressions We loved the colour! That may sound a bit basic, however, a number of sex toys we have used over the years have

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Review – Bestvibe ‘Blow Job Deep Squeeze Sucking Male Masturbator’
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Review – Bestvibe ‘Blow Job Deep Squeeze Sucking Male Masturbator’

06/07/202006/07/2020 HisLordship (Founder)

The Maturbator arrived in a matt black sturdy box giving a good impression from the start. The first thing you notice when picking up the

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Journaling For Doms?
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Journaling For Doms?

03/07/202004/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

For subs? I guess that when the term journaling comes up in a D/s conversation most people would initially associate that with a submissive practice.

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Discipline
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Discipline

05/06/202005/06/2020 HisLordship (Founder)

I think most people understand the concept of discipline whereby training is designed to condition people or animals to behave in certain way. There is

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Are You Being Served?
Building a D/s Dynamic

Are You Being Served?

08/05/202008/05/2020 HisLordship (Founder)

The TellMeAbout prompt this time around is Service. Missy has written a very personal piece on the subject (here) and in it self is another

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Lockdown..still.
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Lockdown..still.

22/04/202022/04/2020 HisLordship (Founder)

These are unprecedented times without doubt. If you are reading this in 2040 maybe the financial impact of Covid-19 may be over. The unfortunate thing

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Wax Play- Naked Flame
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Wax Play- Naked Flame

10/04/202004/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

For the purposes of full disclosure, I haven’t done a great deal of wax play, or I should say, we haven’t.  It’s not that we

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Respect
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Respect

27/03/202004/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

It takes a lot for me to respect you.  In someways, I almost have to feel you, like making a lasting impression that I can

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Edge Play
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Edge Play

11/03/202004/04/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

There’s a certain comfortableness about edge play that draws me back to thinking about it; I guess that is part of the attraction.   I wasn’t

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Self Reflection. Me?
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Self Reflection. Me?

01/01/202006/01/2020 HisLordship (Founder)

One would assume that having been in a D/s relationship for a fair few years now I would have a good grasp on where I

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Review – Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo
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Review – Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo

25/05/201927/05/2019 HisLordship (Founder)

Our eyes first fell upon Hot Octopuss 2 years ago when attending Eroticon in London. Hot Octopuss were one of the sponsors and had a

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How To Install A Ceiling Mount
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How To Install A Ceiling Mount

07/03/201916/12/2022 HisLordship (Founder)

I have been interested in having a suspension point in the bedroom for sometime now. I was envious of those who managed to get their

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It's Time To Close The Club

We opened our doors to the club 6 years ago with the intention of creating a space that was safe and inclusive for people with an interest in Dominance and Submission. Overall, we think we achieved that aim and met a host of great people and made many new friends along the way.
The site has undergone many transformations over the years to keep it fresh and accessible, however, that takes a lot of time and support which we find now in short supply. So, to that end the SWC closes its doors at the end of March 2023.
We want to thank everyone that has invested their time and creativity over the years and to wish you all a safe and happy life!

 

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