It is hard to believe that missy and I have been running the SafeworD/s Club for nearly 5 years. When I think back to the one- or two-page blog we started with, and then adding plug-in after plug-in to make it almost unmanageable, I have to laugh. We knew little back then of web sites […]
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Layering communication so that you reveal instructions one by one allows you to lead he scene and take your partner with you, but this is not something that seems to be explained very often. Over the past 10 years I have spoken to many people about aspects of play in a D/s context. As you […]
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More often that not I read, or see images depicting aftercare in D/s – Kinky play scenarios where the sub is wrapped up to help them come down from what has been most likely an emotional experience. For those of you who have played like this before, you will know the value of ensuring a […]
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I tend to think that impact play is one of the first things that people think of when conjuring up images of BDSM. There might be some black leather or shiny PVC knocking about too, however, whips, paddles and floggers are common go-to images. I recall seeing images of staged spanking in magazines when I […]
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First impressions We loved the colour! That may sound a bit basic, however, a number of sex toys we have used over the years have had quite deep vivid colours that start to fade in odd areas and lose that look of being clean. It’s perception more than anything but if you are putting things […]
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The Maturbator arrived in a matt black sturdy box giving a good impression from the start. The first thing you notice when picking up the box is the weight. It has a certain confident feel that you hope won’t disappoint. The device is slightly overwhelming in construction and appears to have a somewhat futuristic feel […]
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For subs? I guess that when the term journaling comes up in a D/s conversation most people would initially associate that with a submissive practice. That is perfectly understandable, as keeping a diary or journal to capture thoughts and feelings is widely used by a submissive partner to convene what is going on in their […]
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