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THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT
It is hard to believe that missy and I have been running the SafeworD/s Club for nearly 5 years. When I think back to the
More often that not I read, or see images depicting aftercare in D/s – Kinky play scenarios where the sub is wrapped up to help
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The Maturbator arrived in a matt black sturdy box giving a good impression from the start. The first thing you notice when picking up the
Journaling For Doms?
For subs? I guess that when the term journaling comes up in a D/s conversation most people would initially associate that with a submissive practice.
I think most people understand the concept of discipline whereby training is designed to condition people or animals to behave in certain way. There is
Are You Being Served?
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Self Reflection. Me?
One would assume that having been in a D/s relationship for a fair few years now I would have a good grasp on where I
Review – Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo
Our eyes first fell upon Hot Octopuss 2 years ago when attending Eroticon in London. Hot Octopuss were one of the sponsors and had a
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I have been interested in having a suspension point in the bedroom for sometime now. I was envious of those who managed to get their