The Club and the Hosts

A little bit of inside information


The first thing to say is that this site is about all of you and it is not about the two of us. We hope that this will be a safe, welcoming and inclusive place for all people who are living or exploring a D/s dynamic. Being respectful is of course key to any positive relationship and therefore, we ask that you treat all other members as you would wish to be treated yourself and are sensitive to the differing views out there.


We are a happily married, monogamous couple, who live a Dominant/submissive lifestyle. We first began to explore D/s together back in 2012, but decided to make a formal commitment to weave the dynamic through all areas of our marriage in 2014.  Since then we have enjoyed an amazing connection both physically and emotionally and have been able to explore our shared love of kink together.


One thing that has really helped us to learn and grow on our journey is having a network of other Dominants and submissives who we have been able to share with and learn from.  When we first started out it was difficult to find information which would fit a married lifestyle such as ours, but actually there is loads of great information out there which is useful if you know where to look. We hope that having the SWC will help.


We would suggest taking the bits that fit the relationship and lifestyle you have, and leaving the bits that don't.  There is no right or wrong to any of this.  Our D/s is not your D/s as they say but there may be things that we have in common that can be helpful to share.  We are not experts and are not touting this as a teaching site, more it is a community which is accepting of each other and this thing that we do, however we choose actually to do it.


More than anything, we want to feel relaxed, have fun and enjoy each other's company so would like to extend a warm welcome to The SafeworD/s Club.

HisLordship & missy


Being asked to be Dom came as surprise when my wife asked me. Kink play was something we enjoyed, however, this really turned a corner! We explored the D/s by meeting new people on line, making new friends, and this turned bedroom fun into so much more.

Having a structure to support the troubles of life and a large family produced advantages for everyone.  Creating a blog to express ideas and share experiences also took me by somewhat by surprise regarding the number of followers I received in a very short space of time. In return I follow a large number of great writers who make me both laugh and learn.

Please visit my site, and I hope you enjoy The SafeworD/s Club!



I am a wife, a mother, a teacher, a blogger, and most importantly for this site, a submissive.  I feel lucky to be happily married to my amazing Dominant HisLordship and to be exploring D/s with him.

We are based in the UK but are fortunate enough to have made online friends all over the world. I am interested talking to and learning from other submissives so hope to meet you in one of our chat rooms soon.

If you would like to know a bit more about me and my journey, or find out about how we created and maintain our dynamic  then please have a look at my blog or find me through social media.

Welcome to The SafeworD/s Club!